I’m just asking is all. It just seems like I am not accepted to people who identify as the opposite gender than they were assigned and I feel that I am not welcome. Every post I have read about CIS guys or gals has been a post that basically states that all CIS people are ignorant. I would rather not be labeled as such. I try to be as open minded as I possibly can trying to understand all walks of life. It was not my choice to be a CIS male. I just hope that it isn’t the only quality people see of me. I would rather people take the time to talk with me and get to know my personality rather than them assuming that I am ignorant or that I don’t realize how lucky I am. I may or may not, but really I have other concerns that are important to me as well. While I am dealing with them, I would appreciate it if someone didn’t bitch about me being a CIS male. I do not like being pestered about something that I had no choice in, nor would I do the same to someone else in a different position.
And then gays had their own Rosa Parks to start a movement. To whoever can, please support these women in their efforts to get married. :)
So fuck it, I am moving to the moon. I’m tired of all this discrimination bullshit. People can keep their petty religions to themselves and cause hurt and harm to others they do not agree with, people can make their laws concerning what they think “freedom” is, people can continue to fight with each other on every damn issue, but I am tired of it frankly and I want nothing to do with it. All it is is hate based around a notion that they are right and nothing can stand in their way. I say, go ahead, be “right”, be “just”, but I want nothing to do with you. If you think hurting others for the greater cause of what you believe in is right, then I would rather be as far away from your destructive path as possible. I have not met a single person who agrees with one another on the shear fact that their freedom should not infringe upon someone else. There are consequences to this kind of freedom, many of which turn to inhibiting your own. I want nothing to do with others that are blind to the fact that their beliefs are not the only beliefs. I want nothing to do with anyone who thinks that there is no possibility that they are wrong and do not take the time to figure out why they may be. I am done, I am finished, I am no longer going to deal with this pure insanity that people call a society. It may take me ages to find a place where I can finally be alone free of all this absolute bullshit, but needless to say I am going to spend my life looking for such a place.
There shall and forever will be no religious decisions when it comes to making decisions about the law. There is a separation between church and state, in every state. No Exceptions. What has happened in North Carolina is an illegal act considered to be legal. If you want to make decisions based around your bible or any religion when it comes to the law, to bad. Christianity is not the only religion, there are many. Not only do they not allow gay/lesbian marriage, it is also “illegal” there and you can be arrested for it. Either NC needs to reallocate their law or not be recognized as a state or these united states.
Edit: I want someone to give me a legitimate reason why a man and a man or a woman and a woman cannot get married without having religious affiliations being associated with their answer.
This topic is one that has been on my mind for some time now. I just really feel a need to share my formulated thoughts on this subject. Despite overwhelming adversity, I am against it the homosexual lifestyle. This is not because I hate any who has chosen to live this lifestyle, and I do…
To whoever took the time to write this well formulated though,
For one, thank you for at least meddling through with this in your mind. It is nice to see people put this thought into their arguments, but I would have to say that you assume too much of people. Not every gay person is the same nor is every straight person the same either. On a personal note, if both siblings were of age and were legally adults who would have the power to make their own decisions, then I really wouldn’t have any problem with inter-sibling relationships or marriages. It in no way effects me nor does it effect anyone around them directly. If anything, the end result will be just the same as any other marriage and life will go on. Now don’t get me wrong, I am a gay person who supports this, but I do not speak for all gay people. I am sure their are some out their that believe otherwise and would despise inter-sibling relationships. I am only one man and can only speak for myself. As far as anything goes, there is a saying that pops up everywhere and I am sure that you are familiar with it. The saying goes, “Love is Love.” What I would think that would mean would be that love applies to all situations, no matter what the cause or belief.
Well, here I am once more to try and explain my point, but I think I will keep it short and simple. Some people don’t agree with gay marriage. Well, what a coincidence, I don’t agree with straight marriage as well. I, a gay man, should have just as many rights as the straight man next to me. If I can not get married, then I would expect my government to recognize that we should have equal rights and strip the strait mans marriage rights as well. I will settle for two things. Either gay marriage becomes legal along side straight marriage, or marriage become illegal for everyone. Why should any other man or women have any more rights than I do? Why should someone else be able to marry the one they love while I cannot? If you stand for the equality for each and every human in this country that likes to call itself the land of the free and you don’t agree with gay marriage, then you are not standing for equality. If you forget, blacks were separate but equal. Separate is the exact opposite of equal. It is an oxymoron. If you agree with straight marriage and not gay marriage, then you do not agree with marriage itself. I will state my point one more time. You may not agree with gay marriage, but if you take that stance I will fight to have the straight mans marriage to be stripped away just like my right to marriage has. Either they should be both legal, or marriage between anyone should not be legal. Done and done. No one, I repeat, no one should have any more rights than the person that lives next door to them. Give me my rights, or I will strip away yours.
The only people it will effect if you fuck someone is you and the other person you fuck. It literally effects no one else. If I fuck the dude next door, does it effect someone 5 blocks down the street? Does it cause his cable to cut out or his internet to crash? If it does, that would be fucking hilarious in itself, but I think I can safely say that that is not the case. If I am gay, I am gay. It should not effect a single straight person and it doesn’t. If I am gay, will that fact change the taste of a straight persons coffee in the morning? I don’t believe it will. If it doesn’t effect you whatsoever, then why does one feel the need to tell the other how much it is wrong? Why do they feel the need to stop gay people from being gay or get onto them for being gay when it in no way effects the person who is not gay? Why care so much to waste the time arguing about something that really in any light does not matter. Does it effect multiple people when someone is murdered? Of course it does. It effects their family, their business, their friends. There are more important things to focus on other than the fact that you think being gay is wrong. Who you screw in your bed or someone elses bed has little to no effect on the world. Focus on something that matters rather than focusing almost all of your attention on something that is trivial. This should apply to both Straight and Gay people. If you are gay, why spend your time bitching about people who “hate” you? Defend your rights yes, but don’t waste your time trying to change someone’s mind about something that should not matter to them. If you are straight and uncomfortable with it, then just keep your distance. Please do not vote to keep gay marriage out of “your” state, because for one it isn’t “your” state. Why vote on something that literally has no effect on you whatsoever? For both partys, I ask that you focus your attention on more pressing matters rather than who we decide to fuck or not fuck.